Friday, August 07

Jay Israel Write Love Letter To Blessing Mashangwa

Meet Blessing , known as lladybee_ on instagram The woman I fell in love with and had great plans to build each other and become life partners . Just like every other normal couple , we had our ups and downs and I wont leave out all the good times we spent together travelling , exploring , doing charity work and doing business .

 After her broadcast , I saw a lot of comments , negative and positive but today I want to add my comment as well regarding my relationship with her . First and foremost I accept the apology she gave me on her live broadcast, at least she realized on her own how her departure from my life wounded me. I wronged her as well in my speech and actions but I would like her to receive my sincere apology as well for everything . We did a lot together and had so many plans about the future . We struck business deals that gave us millions , lost millions also in the process like any other business people , but we were still a happy couple .

 Many people passed nasty comments about our age difference but hey We were very much in love because to me , age is nothing but a useless number . She can attest to the fact that I used to Call her my little baby darling because that’s what she was to me , a very submissive and respectful woman . She used to call me King or Daddy because of the mutual respect we had for each other .

 Blessing is a very successful businesswoman , multi millionaire, philanthropist and multi award winning entrepreneur . Her passion is to empower women to become financially free and start their own businesses, in Zimbabwe alone she runs a company that has empowered more than 4000women .

 In as much as she can afford anything she wants under the sun , I still played my role of being a provider in the relationship from day 1 . I remember offering to buy her a G wagon I had seen and she refused it saying she’s not about that flashy life , she was comfortable with her cars , I still went ahead though and renovated a beautiful penthouse for her in Sandton because all we shared was LOVE .

She lives a very quiet , private and isolated life . I am not one to trash talk my EX but I give credit were it’s due and Bee deserves some .

 One thing I will forever be grateful for is that Blessing played a huge role in making me a better man and a better partner . She encouraged me to pray more and to have a better relationship with God, We prayed and worshipped together . She’s a very prayerful woman who loves God passionately . She still prays for me and we still share nuggets about business and life in general .

 So before all of you pass nasty comments about my involvement with her let me make it public that we can date whoever we want to date as long LOVE is the foundation . Our break up did break both of us because we were madly in love with each other , I have done things that I’m not proud of since our break up because I was really heartbroken . I have given it a good thought that nommatter what happens in life we make choices but God decides .

 So Blesing here’s to being friends 

Continue being the good, kindhearted and prayerful person you are, and I pray the man who’s going to marry you will do at least one thing I used to do all the time to cheer you up , which was BUYING YOU 300 ROSES  just because I loved you . ALL THE BEST IN EVERYTHING CONCERNING YOUR LIFE .

 

Yours truly

 

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Mortgage Refinance Guide: Costs, Rates, and Break-Even Math

 

A lower mortgage rate sounds attractive, but refinancing is not always a guaranteed win. A refinance replaces your current mortgage with a new loan, and that new loan usually comes with closing costs, a new term, new paperwork, and sometimes a reset payoff timeline. The right question is not simply, Can I get a lower rate? The better question is, Will this refinance improve my finances after all costs are included?

The most common reason to refinance is to lower the interest rate. A lower rate can reduce the monthly payment and total interest over time. However, closing costs can include lender fees, appraisal fees, title fees, recording fees, credit report fees, prepaid taxes, prepaid insurance, and points. Some lenders advertise no-closing-cost refinancing, but the costs may be rolled into the loan balance or covered through a higher rate.

The break-even point is one of the most important calculations. Divide the total refinance cost by the monthly savings. If closing costs are $4,000 and the refinance saves $200 per month, the break-even point is 20 months. If you plan to stay in the home longer than that, the refinance may make sense. If you expect to sell or move before then, the savings may never catch up.

Loan term matters. Refinancing from a 30-year mortgage into a new 30-year mortgage can lower the payment but may extend debt far into the future. That can increase total interest even with a lower rate. Some homeowners choose a 15-year or 20-year refinance to pay off the home faster, but the payment may be higher. Others choose a new 30-year term for cash-flow relief. The best choice depends on monthly budget, retirement timeline, and long-term goals.

A cash-out refinance allows a homeowner to borrow more than the current mortgage balance and receive the difference in cash. People use cash-out refinancing for home improvements, debt consolidation, education, or emergency reserves. This can be useful when the numbers work, but it also increases the mortgage balance and puts the home at risk if payments become unaffordable.

Refinancing from an adjustable-rate mortgage to a fixed-rate mortgage can also be smart when payment stability matters. Adjustable rates may start lower but can change later based on the loan terms. A fixed rate can provide predictability, especially for homeowners who plan to stay long term.

Credit score, home equity, income, debt-to-income ratio, property type, and appraisal value can all affect refinance options. A stronger credit profile and more equity may qualify for better rates. If the home value has increased, refinancing may also help remove private mortgage insurance if requirements are met.

Points deserve careful review. Discount points are upfront fees paid to reduce the interest rate. Buying points can make sense if you plan to keep the loan long enough to recover the cost through lower payments. If you may move, sell, or refinance again soon, paying points may not be worthwhile.

Before applying, gather the current mortgage statement, homeowners insurance details, property tax information, income documents, credit information, and an estimate of home value. Ask lenders for loan estimates using the same loan type and term so comparisons are fair.

Questions to ask include: What is the APR? What are total closing costs? Are costs paid upfront or rolled into the loan? What is the new loan balance? What is the break-even point? Are there prepayment penalties? How long will underwriting take? Does the rate lock have a fee? What happens if the appraisal comes in low?

Refinancing can be a powerful financial move when it lowers total costs, improves stability, removes mortgage insurance, shortens the term, or supports a smart cash-flow plan. It can be a mistake when it only lowers the payment by extending debt or adding costs that never pay off. Run the numbers before signing.

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